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Marc-Burris
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on: 2008-09-16 00:48:30» |
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I recently split up with my ex because of his issues which mean he finds it really hard to get close with anyone. After the intitial period of being gutted, I was fine with it and we dedcided to take things very very slowly, start back as friends again as we both find we can talk to each other about things we might not be able to talk to to others, and see where it took us. I just didn't really bother getting in contact for a week or so though, and he started intitiating conversations on facebook etc. Then we'd send stupid little texts and stuff etc etc.Anyway, this weekend aout of the blue he invited me to a house party after I'd been on a night out, which I went to. When we were seeing each other he never ever had showed me any affection in front of his 'boys' before - not ignored me but he wouldn't kiss or cuddle - but at the party he was really lovely to me, got me introduced to his friends, made a big effort with my friends who had come with me and we ended up going back to his place afterwards...We had really good sex which I'm not going to complain about, but I thought I'd play it all cool in the morning, like I wasn't that bothered and left pretty early even though he asked me to stay with him. He was lovely in morning, which he always was, all cuddles and those nice things and I was really happy.We spoke a few times on saturday, again all good things were said, then sunday I text saying my mum was away for the night last night, if he fancied coming over let me know. Heard nothing back so I left it and went out last night instead :)I got in and had a message from himn on facebook which basically said he was sorry, had no credit on his phone, won't until payday (which I don't know when that is) he had been out for a meal and he couldn't see me on work nights anyway coz he's getting too old (he's 26!) and goodnight.First of all, is he just using me for the sex? I don't think he would...I know him really well and for ages (10 years) and I doubt he would do that to me...but I can see it loooks this way at the moment, so should I just sack this 'relationship' off, not bother with trying to take things slow like he wants, or should I persevere as I think I love him, and let him come to me which I think he will eventually, but could be ages :( This situation is just doing my head in I'm sorry it's a really long post, I always waffle on my questions!Thanks :)
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Kym-Cram
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RE: Should I Even Bother With Him Anymore,is He Playing Games My Head Is Screwed?
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on: 2008-09-16 01:56:39» |
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Wait it out! see if he actually calls you when he gets credit! payday loan coupon codes He needs to strengthen things between you if he wants a relationship. I reckon you should stand back . But don't hold your breath, the outcome will dictate whether he's really interested or not!
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Carolina-Eisenhart
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RE: Should I Even Bother With Him Anymore,is He Playing Games My Head Is Screwed?
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on: 2008-09-16 03:27:42» |
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payday loan coupon codes - There's a chapter in there called 'Men are like rubber bands'..
- Give him time and space and if he is worth it he will come back to you..
- if you keep pestering them, they will just push you away.
- Give then what they want, space..
- Have you ever read the book Men are from Mars Women are from Venus?
- Give it one last shot - leave it up to him..
- and they will come back to you when the time is right..
- If he doesn't then forget him..
- Screw him!
- it's a great read!!
- If you leave them be, they will always come back to you..
- Get a copy of that book tho..
- If i were you i'd give it one last shot payday loan coupon codes He'll realise sooner or later how stupid he's been, and by then you'll be happy with some1 else by then hopefully!
- Good Luck!!!
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Osvaldo-Hil
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RE: Should I Even Bother With Him Anymore,is He Playing Games My Head Is Screwed?
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on: 2008-09-16 01:46:30» |
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He just wants to have sex with you. It doesn't matter how long you've known him payday loan coupon codes Men mostly think with the wrong head.
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Lashawn-Byers
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RE: Should I Even Bother With Him Anymore,is He Playing Games My Head Is Screwed?
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on: 2008-09-16 01:41:58» |
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Simple payday loan coupon codes Forget about him.
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Roslyn-Wible
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RE: Should I Even Bother With Him Anymore,is He Playing Games My Head Is Screwed?
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on: 2008-09-16 01:47:17» |
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I wouldnt take him seriously, if anything you guys are just casually in a relationship and the reason is pretty much just sex payday loan coupon codes Im not exactly sure, but I wouldnt be surprised if you were always the last priority
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Cyril-Appleby
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RE: Should I Even Bother With Him Anymore,is He Playing Games My Head Is Screwed?
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on: 2008-09-16 01:40:34» |
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you have seriously shorten this in a term of a summary, this is ridiculous, i'm not reading this at 1:40 in the morning.!!! payday loan coupon codes
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Damion-Olphert
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RE: Should I Even Bother With Him Anymore,is He Playing Games My Head Is Screwed?
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on: 2008-09-16 01:42:35» |
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- you must love yourself before you can allow others to love you !
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